Grace and peace be unto you!
I pray that you are having a fabulous morning. In Kansas, the sun is out and it feels pretty warm. I won't complain it could be a lot worse. Knowing that this week is Thanksgiving I wanted to share a little thought with you to keep you from popping off with your family. Agreement #2 Don't take it personally.
Yes, before you say a cuss word out loud. I know this is difficult, but it is necessary to deal with some of your relatives. Don't take it personally. Hurt people will always lash out and hurt others with side remarks and questions they know will get under your skin. They are not doing it because of you they are doing it because something inside of them is broken. It is a projection of their own reality, which might not be yours. When their comments and behavior can no longer get to you, you are free. Freedom feels and looks so good on you. Don't allow others to dump their garbage at your doorstep. Help them put their foolishness right back in their mouths. Sis, you don't have space in your life for those that don't have your best interest at heart. You know how to cook (or purchase). If your family is too toxic, stop by eat a bite of dessert and keep it pushing. The people that love and support us the most are not always the people that we have blood ties to. Don't take it personally. It is not you, it is them. Love ya to life.
Until tomorrow #liveBlessed
#ninevahtour2020 #healthygirlsrock
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